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Friday, February 8, 2008

definiton og love








__________ love ___________


The word love has many different meanings in English, from something that gives a little pleasure ("I loved that meal") to something one would die for (patriotism, family). It can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love. Probably due to its psychological relevance, love is one of the most common themes in art and music.
Just as there are many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Though love is inherent in all human cultures, cultural differences make any universal definition difficult to establish.[1] One definition attempting to be universally applicable is Thomas Jay Oord's: to love is to act intentionally, in sympathetic response to others (including God), to promote overall well-being. This definition applies to the positive connotations of love.
Expressions of love may include the love for a "soul" or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etcetera. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. According to many philosophers, the only goal of life is to be happy. And there is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved. Love is essentially an abstract concept, much easier to experience than to explain




Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love which are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as erotomania.
Some feelings that are often associated with interpersonal love:
Affection: feelings of tenderness and/or wanting physical closeness
Attachment: satisfying basic emotional needs
Altruism: selfless or unselfish concern for another
Reciprocation: if love is mutual
Commitment: a desire to maintain love
Emotional intimacy: sharing emotions and feelings
Friendship: the spirit between friends
Kinship: family bonds
Passion: whole-hearted desire
Physical intimacy: sharing of intimate personal space
Self-interest: desiring rewards
Service: desire to help
Sexuality can be an important element in determining the shape of a relationship. While sexual attraction often establishes a new bond, sexual intention is considered undesirable or inappropriate in certain love bonds. In many religions and systems of ethics it is considered wrong to act on sexual desire for immediate family, for children, or outside of a committed relationship. However, there are many ways to express passionate love without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and shared interests and experiences are common in friendships and kinships of all human beings

Friday, February 1, 2008

it's sweeter the second time around!!!

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"sweeter is the best discription in my relationship this days""



sometime in our life we don't appreciate things and feelings



if they are there loving us whole heartly,



but if their gone we tend to miss there presence!!,



today, jan 1 2008, the first day of day of febuary which we fun called the month of hearts, because this month, the valintine's day celebrated(feb.14)..



in my life, i know there are many people love me,



but for now i exactly knew who the only one



who truely love me, execpt from my mom..



clavinova was the name!!



i like and fun in calling him



clavz,



becasue its give strong impact in my self..



i know i really hurt her feeling those past years ,



and GOD knows how i repent it..!!



it so true that saying things in declarative sentence is not right!!



because we don't know the present!!..



clavz was a pretty woman, she care for me all the time,



i can sense it!!



we now the our feeling are attracts more energy to make it right!!



this girl make me see how beatiful life in this world right now!!



she let me once again pass to her heart eventhough



i made so many mistake to her in our past relationship...



this girl love me so much and i can noticed it!!



i know and i can feel!!



right now, im inlove again!!,



inlove with the same person i loved and done wrong before!!!



and i really know like this saying;






in love expect for a tears.



in love expect for a trials.



but 4 me in love .



u can sacrife everything 2 make her hapi eventhough



8 hurts u so much!!!






and i feell that this time, now i can sacrife for him to be hapi,



but i know it will not hurt me much because she knows i love him very much!!!






love you very much my bhe!!!!






love u bhe!!
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